{"id":3117315,"date":"2006-11-01T00:00:39","date_gmt":"2006-11-01T05:00:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.friendsjournal.org\/reglas-negativas-frente-a-positivas\/"},"modified":"2006-11-01T00:00:39","modified_gmt":"2006-11-01T05:00:39","slug":"reglas-negativas-frente-a-positivas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.friendsjournal.org\/es\/reglas-negativas-frente-a-positivas\/","title":{"rendered":"Reglas negativas frente a positivas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Estoy en la Reuni\u00f3n General de Amigos Junior Gathering, trabajando como personal de apoyo con ni\u00f1os que entran en tercer y cuarto grado. Algunos miembros de mi grupo se est\u00e1n amotinando. Nuestros dos coordinadores no est\u00e1n por ning\u00fan lado.  <\/p>\n<p>La animadora de mi grupo dice que le han entrado ganas de liderar una protesta. Esta es su oportunidad de oro. Subida a un cerezo, grita: \u201c\u00bfQu\u00e9 queremos?\u00bb  <\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00a1F\u00fatbol!\u00bb, corean sus seguidores. Resulta que uno de los miembros del personal de apoyo de un grupo vecino de Junior Gathering se hab\u00eda escapado con nuestro bal\u00f3n de f\u00fatbol, y los ni\u00f1os gritones lo quer\u00edan de vuelta. <\/p>\n<p>Un miembro del grupo sugiri\u00f3 ir a su tienda a buscar un reemplazo. \u201cNo\u00bb, dijo el coordinador. \u201cEst\u00e1 en contra de las reglas. No podemos dejar que os vay\u00e1is solos durante el tiempo del grupo.\u00bb  <\/p>\n<p>En realidad, lo que se hab\u00eda recalcado en nuestra orientaci\u00f3n era que los ni\u00f1os de nuestro grupo de edad no pod\u00edan salir del grupo a menos que fueran acompa\u00f1ados por uno de los miembros adultos del personal y al menos otro ni\u00f1o del grupo. En retrospectiva, me doy cuenta de que mi creatividad para encontrar una soluci\u00f3n se hab\u00eda visto inhibida por los t\u00e9rminos negativos en los que se presentaba la regla. \u00bfY si la regla se hubiera expresado de forma diferente? \u201cSe permite a los ni\u00f1os salir del grupo si van acompa\u00f1ados por un l\u00edder y al menos otro ni\u00f1o del grupo\u00bb.   <\/p>\n<p>Posiblemente nos habr\u00edamos dado cuenta de que todo el grupo podr\u00eda haber ido a buscar el bal\u00f3n. Ir\u00f3nicamente, descubrimos m\u00e1s tarde que la tienda en cuesti\u00f3n estaba bastante cerca del campo de f\u00fatbol. <\/p>\n<p>Cuando procesamos todo el episodio la noche siguiente, pude admitir que mi liderazgo se hab\u00eda visto sofocado, no solo por la situaci\u00f3n, sino por la forma en que se hab\u00edan planteado las reglas. Aspiro a ser un l\u00edder, y una persona, que acent\u00fae lo positivo, y utilice las reglas para beneficiar en lugar de oprimir a aquellos para quienes est\u00e1n destinadas. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Estoy en la Reuni\u00f3n General de Amigos Junior Gathering, trabajando como personal de apoyo con ni\u00f1os que entran en tercer&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":750,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9799],"tags":[11603,11530,10867],"fpb_issue_category":[],"class_list":["post-3117315","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-cronicas","tag-autorrealizacion","tag-liderazgo","tag-ninos"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.8 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Reglas negativas frente a positivas - Friends Journal<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.friendsjournal.org\/es\/reglas-negativas-frente-a-positivas\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"es_ES\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Reglas negativas frente a positivas - 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