{"id":3117461,"date":"2007-06-01T00:00:26","date_gmt":"2007-06-01T04:00:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.friendsjournal.org\/consolar-al-consolador\/"},"modified":"2007-06-01T00:00:26","modified_gmt":"2007-06-01T04:00:26","slug":"consolar-al-consolador","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.friendsjournal.org\/es\/consolar-al-consolador\/","title":{"rendered":"Consolar al consolador"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Comida sobre ruedas. \u00daltima entrega de la ruta. Molly. Una anciana viuda y solitaria. Espero pacientemente mientras me cuenta por en\u00e9sima vez c\u00f3mo construy\u00f3 ella misma la barandilla del porche. Finalmente liberado, vuelvo a mi camioneta, donde, distra\u00eddo por mis pensamientos, agarro la puerta por la parte superior y \u00a1la cierro de golpe sobre mis dedos! Doy un grito y ofrezco un ep\u00edteto no muy original a viva voz. S\u00e9 que tengo hielo en la nevera port\u00e1til. Si puedo meter la mano r\u00e1pidamente, evitar\u00e9 gran parte del dolor y la lesi\u00f3n. Chillando todo el camino, corro a la parte trasera de la camioneta.         <\/p>\n<p>\u00bfEst\u00e1s bien? <\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfNecesitas ayuda?<\/p>\n<p>No \u2014respondo\u2014, pensando que eso pon\u00eda fin a la transacci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Encuentro el hielo y meto la mano en \u00e9l. Bien, he llegado a tiempo para evitar las consecuencias de mi estupidez. De repente, Molly est\u00e1 detr\u00e1s de m\u00ed, d\u00e1ndome posiblemente el peor masaje de cuello de la historia mientras me dice directamente al o\u00eddo: \u00abJes\u00fas te ama\u00bb.  <\/p>\n<p>Estoy horrorizado. No me gusta mucho que me toquen extra\u00f1os, y no veo qu\u00e9 tiene que ver Jes\u00fas con esto. Como Amigo, s\u00e9 que se supone que debo mantener a todos en la Luz, incluso a aquellos que est\u00e1n invadiendo mi espacio; pero, \u00a1honestamente! Estoy a punto de mandar a Molly a paseo, cuando recuerdo algo que me dijo mi profesor de terapia: \u00abCuando consueles a alguien, ten muy claro qui\u00e9n necesita el consuelo\u00bb.   <\/p>\n<p>Resulta que la mayor\u00eda de nosotros nos sentimos inc\u00f3modos cuando estamos en presencia del sufrimiento. El consuelo que ofrecemos est\u00e1 dise\u00f1ado para silenciar las se\u00f1ales de angustia. Qu\u00e9 pensamiento m\u00e1s extra\u00f1o: gran parte del consuelo consiste en consolar al consolador.  <\/p>\n<p>Tomemos a los beb\u00e9s, por ejemplo. Esos inocentes paquetitos de emoci\u00f3n desnuda son, de hecho, excelentes extorsionadores. Tienen un recuerdo gen\u00e9tico de c\u00f3mo conseguir atenci\u00f3n inmediata. Su llanto es probablemente el sonido m\u00e1s irritante de la Tierra. Por eso las sirenas suenan como beb\u00e9s, a prop\u00f3sito. El beb\u00e9 emite un aullido tal que est\u00e1 destinado a atraer la atenci\u00f3n de cualquier leopardo que pase por all\u00ed y, por lo tanto, crea en los oyentes humanos una ansiedad instant\u00e1nea y el deseo de hacer casi cualquier cosa para apagar el ruido. Yo mismo lo experimento cada vez que uno de los peque\u00f1os estalla en el supermercado, incluso a varios pasillos de distancia.      <\/p>\n<p>Hace mucho tiempo, estaba cuidando ni\u00f1os en el Meeting anual cuando un ni\u00f1o de 12 a\u00f1os se hizo da\u00f1o en mitad de un juego. R\u00e1pidamente determin\u00e9 que la lesi\u00f3n era solo un \u00abpinchazo\u00bb. Le pregunt\u00e9 si estaba bien. Con los dientes apretados me dijo que s\u00ed; y segu\u00ed con el juego. Al instante, media docena de madres\/espectadoras se abalanzaron en su ayuda. Usando el mismo ep\u00edteto que usar\u00eda a\u00f1os despu\u00e9s, les dijo crudamente a las mujeres que se marcharan. Lo \u00faltimo que quiere un ni\u00f1o de 12 a\u00f1os cuando se lesiona es que su madre le atienda a la vista de otros ni\u00f1os&#8230; \u00a1y mucho menos media docena de madres!      <\/p>\n<p>Retrocedieron, pero siguieron rode\u00e1ndole desde una distancia segura, con la preocupaci\u00f3n grabada en cada rostro. Privadas de su oportunidad de aliviar su propia angustia, tuvieron que rondar cerca con la esperanza de que \u00e9l cediera. No lo hizo.  <\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que entend\u00ed lo que Molly necesitaba; y a rega\u00f1adientes supe lo que ten\u00eda que hacer. Se supone que dar es m\u00e1s bendito que recibir. Pero recibir tambi\u00e9n puede ser bendito, sobre todo cuando facilita la oportunidad de ministrar a otra persona. Alcanc\u00e9 al Amigo que hay en lo m\u00e1s profundo de m\u00ed y le di a Molly toda la Luz que pude.   <\/p>\n<p>Atemper\u00e9 mi voz, eliminando de ella cualquier indicio de dolor; y dije: \u00abGracias\u00bb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Comida sobre ruedas. \u00daltima entrega de la ruta. Molly. Una anciana viuda y solitaria. 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