{"id":3119346,"date":"2013-09-01T13:00:38","date_gmt":"2013-09-01T17:00:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.friendsjournal.org\/entre-amigos-cuando-el-amor-requiere-conflicto\/"},"modified":"2013-09-01T13:00:38","modified_gmt":"2013-09-01T17:00:38","slug":"entre-amigos-cuando-el-amor-requiere-conflicto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.friendsjournal.org\/es\/entre-amigos-cuando-el-amor-requiere-conflicto\/","title":{"rendered":"Entre Amigos: cuando el Amor requiere conflicto"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"dropcap\">S<\/span><!--\/.dropcap-->i la fe cu\u00e1quera fuera un \u00e1rbol, llevar\u00eda las cicatrices del conflicto, pero tambi\u00e9n el car\u00e1cter nudoso de un organismo imparable que ha crecido a trav\u00e9s de sus obst\u00e1culos.<br \/>\nEn el art\u00edculo principal de este n\u00famero, \u201cLo que el Amor Requiere\u201d (p. 6), George Schaefer escribe:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>A menudo, en el Meeting, conflictos innombrables o intocables hierven a fuego lento durante a\u00f1os, lo que resulta en reuniones de negocios excesivamente pol\u00e9micas y una asistencia cada vez menor. \u00bfNos hemos preocupado demasiado por la inclusi\u00f3n y la aceptaci\u00f3n, y por la apariencia de armon\u00eda, a expensas de la unidad y la paz, que son frutos del Esp\u00edritu? <\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>No debemos ver el conflicto como un obst\u00e1culo que nos impide avanzar por nuestro camino espiritual. Debemos ver que el conflicto <g id=\"gid_0\">es<\/g> el camino. Es una parte natural de la vida, y nuestra tarea es primero nombrarlo y luego crecer a trav\u00e9s de \u00e9l, ya sea que el conflicto involucre el comportamiento individual, la disfunci\u00f3n grupal o una conciencia cada vez mayor de que lo que el Amor requiere es que estemos preparados para desmantelar nuestras propias estructuras y procesos.  <\/p>\n<p><span class=\"dropcap\">U<\/span><!--\/.dropcap-->n conflicto entre el amor y el proceso pes\u00f3 mucho sobre muchos Amigos cuando nos reunimos en Lehigh Valley a finales de julio para las 333 sesiones anuales del Philadelphia Yearly Meeting. Un comit\u00e9 permanente sobrecargado de trabajo y con pocos miembros hab\u00eda establecido recientemente una pol\u00edtica que amenazaba con hacer lo contrario de su prop\u00f3sito declarado, humillando a los j\u00f3venes transg\u00e9nero en lugar de abrazarlos y apoyarlos. Una conflagraci\u00f3n de protestas se extendi\u00f3 por Internet, irritando a los cu\u00e1queros a nivel local y mundial y exponiendo la profunda decepci\u00f3n y el dolor que esta pol\u00edtica estaba a punto de causar si entraba en vigor. Pocos d\u00edas antes de la sesi\u00f3n anual, la secretaria del Philadelphia Yearly Meeting se arriesg\u00f3. Tom\u00f3 la inusual medida de suspender la pol\u00edtica de j\u00f3venes transg\u00e9nero por su propia acci\u00f3n (despu\u00e9s de consultar con sus secretarios asistentes). Si bien estaba claro que era poco probable que la pol\u00edtica resistiera el discernimiento corporativo, los Amigos desconf\u00edan del poder de veto que implicaba la acci\u00f3n de la secretaria. Yo, por mi parte, no sab\u00eda muy bien qu\u00e9 esperar. \u00bfC\u00f3mo reaccionar\u00eda la comunidad y resolver\u00eda el miasma de un proceso deficiente y el acto extraordinario de una secretaria?       <\/p>\n<p>Para nuestro cr\u00e9dito, los Amigos no reuyeron este conflicto ni lo enterraron en un comit\u00e9. Lo que sucedi\u00f3 cuando adoramos como un cuerpo anual de Meeting me hizo sentir orgulloso hasta las l\u00e1grimas de los Amigos y de nuestra capacidad de crecimiento y cuidado como cuerpo. Disculpa y perd\u00f3n. Compartir profundo. Escucha profunda. Una determinaci\u00f3n de llegar al fondo de lo que nos aflige y de fomentar la integridad.     <\/p>\n<p>Un Amigo experimentado expres\u00f3 la opini\u00f3n de muchos cuando testific\u00f3 que \u201cLos procesos nunca deber\u00edan ser nuestro dios. Hay momentos, raros, para salir de los procesos y ser fieles al m\u00e1s fundamental de los procesos de los Amigos, que es escuchar al Esp\u00edritu Interior\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Mi experiencia cu\u00e1quera abarca solo una fracci\u00f3n de la vida de mi venerable Meeting anual, pero he visto lo suficiente como para saber que el Esp\u00edritu no reh\u00faye los obst\u00e1culos en su camino ni traza un curso diferente. Como el \u00e1rbol, lento, org\u00e1nico y con ra\u00edces que lo arraigan y hojas que respiran ox\u00edgeno en el mundo, cuando estamos atentos a \u00e9l, el Esp\u00edritu crece a trav\u00e9s de nuestro conflicto. <\/p>\n<p>Suyo en paz<br \/>\nGabriel Ehri, <em>Director Ejecutivo<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Si la fe cu\u00e1quera fuera un \u00e1rbol, llevar\u00eda las cicatrices del conflicto, pero tambi\u00e9n el car\u00e1cter nudoso de un organismo imparable que ha crecido a trav\u00e9s de sus obst\u00e1culos.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9803,9847],"tags":[],"fpb_issue_category":[10577],"class_list":["post-3119346","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-entre-amigos","category-no-destacado","fpb_issue_category-septiembre-de-2013"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.7 - 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