{"id":3120178,"date":"2016-03-01T04:05:45","date_gmt":"2016-03-01T09:05:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.friendsjournal.org\/amor-incluso-hacia-mi-mismo\/"},"modified":"2016-03-01T04:05:45","modified_gmt":"2016-03-01T09:05:45","slug":"amor-incluso-hacia-mi-mismo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.friendsjournal.org\/es\/amor-incluso-hacia-mi-mismo\/","title":{"rendered":"Amor, incluso hacia m\u00ed mismo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span class=\"dropcap\">Siempre<\/span><!--\/.dropcap--> me ha costado mucho quererme a m\u00ed misma. A muchos nos pasa. Tengo depresi\u00f3n mayor, as\u00ed que esta y mi falta de amor propio se refuerzan mutuamente. A menudo no me gusto. Las influencias de mi pasado me llevaron a creer que quererte a ti mismo significaba ser arrogante o engre\u00eddo, y que si te quieres a ti mismo tal como eres ahora, te has rendido y no podr\u00e1s mejorar ni crecer. Y definitivamente me llev\u00f3 a creer que ser un trabajador duro era la \u00fanica manera de redimirte.     <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Y, sin embargo, tantos psiquiatras, terapeutas, gur\u00fas de autoayuda y amigos nos dicen que tenemos que empezar a querernos a nosotros mismos para crecer y amar a los dem\u00e1s. Incluso la Biblia lo dice, aconsej\u00e1ndonos amar a nuestros pr\u00f3jimos como a nosotros mismos. \u00a1Yo nunca tratar\u00eda as\u00ed a un vecino! Cada vez que intentaba entender c\u00f3mo quererme a m\u00ed misma como algo bueno, me frustraba y me daba cuenta de que no ten\u00eda ni idea de c\u00f3mo ser\u00eda eso. Recientemente, durante la reuni\u00f3n para el culto, se me ocurri\u00f3 que hay una explicaci\u00f3n de c\u00f3mo es el amor. Solo necesito aplic\u00e1rmela a m\u00ed misma. As\u00ed que personalic\u00e9 la definici\u00f3n de amor que se encuentra en 1 Corintios cap\u00edtulo 13 para que fuera obvio que tambi\u00e9n me inclu\u00eda a m\u00ed.      <\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">El amor es paciente conmigo misma.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">El amor es amable conmigo misma.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">El amor no envidia: mirar a los dem\u00e1s y juzgarme a m\u00ed misma como deficiente.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">El amor no se jacta, ni siquiera a m\u00ed misma, porque eso es aprobarme a m\u00ed misma por lo que hago o tengo, y no solo porque existo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">El amor no es arrogante y no escucha cuando otros son arrogantes conmigo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">El amor no es grosero, ni siquiera conmigo misma.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">El amor no busca su propio camino, ya que a menudo eso est\u00e1 impulsado por solo aprobarme a m\u00ed misma por lo que puedo hacer que suceda, en lugar de solo porque existo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">El amor no es irritable ni resentido, ni siquiera conmigo misma.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">El amor no se centra demasiado en los errores sufridos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">El amor s\u00ed se centra en la verdad de m\u00ed misma.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">El amor soporta con delicadeza todo sobre m\u00ed misma.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">El amor cree todas las cosas verdaderas sobre m\u00ed misma.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">El amor tiene esperanza en m\u00ed misma.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">El amor perdura en m\u00ed.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sigue siendo un desaf\u00edo, y tal vez siempre lo sea. Pero ahora, cuando me estoy adentrando demasiado en la duda de m\u00ed misma, o incluso en el odio a m\u00ed misma, trato de volver y leer esto de nuevo. Hasta ahora, ayuda.  <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nuestro punto de vista de marzo de 2016<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[10339],"tags":[13966],"fpb_issue_category":[10624],"class_list":["post-3120178","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-punto-de-vista","tag-kim","fpb_issue_category-discapacidad-e-inclusion"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.7 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Amor, incluso hacia m\u00ed mismo - Friends Journal<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.friendsjournal.org\/es\/amor-incluso-hacia-mi-mismo\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"es_ES\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Amor, incluso hacia m\u00ed mismo - 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