{"id":3125306,"date":"2019-09-01T01:15:23","date_gmt":"2019-09-01T05:15:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.friendsjournal.org\/book\/kwa-hivyo-unataka-kuzungumza-kuhusu-mbio\/"},"modified":"2019-09-01T01:15:23","modified_gmt":"2019-09-01T05:15:23","slug":"kwa-hivyo-unataka-kuzungumza-kuhusu-mbio","status":"publish","type":"fpb_book","link":"https:\/\/www.friendsjournal.org\/sw\/book\/kwa-hivyo-unataka-kuzungumza-kuhusu-mbio\/","title":{"rendered":"Kwa hivyo Unataka Kuzungumza Kuhusu Mbio"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>Na Ijeoma Oluo. Muhuri Press, 2018. 256 kurasa. $ 27 \/ jalada gumu; $ 16.99 \/ karatasi; $10.99\/Kitabu pepe. <\/i><\/b><\/h3>\nNunua kutoka kwa QuakerBooks<\/span><\/a>\n

Ninapohudhuria<\/span> mkutano wangu wa kila mwezi, mimi ni mmoja wa watu wachache tu wenye nyuso nyeusi au kahawia katika chumba kilichojaa watu wengi weupe. Ikiwa kuna kitu kinaendelea kwenye habari kinachohusiana na mbio (kwa mfano polisi kumpiga risasi mtu mweusi asiye na silaha), mimi huulizwa maswali mengi. Kawaida zinasikika hivi: ”Ninajua ubaguzi wa rangi ni mbaya, lakini sijui la kufanya kuhusu hilo. Nifanye nini?” Kwa kila ninapoulizwa swali hili, nataka kuwapa kitabu hiki. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sio kitabu cha kila mtu, kama vile watu hao, ikiwa ni pamoja na watu wa rangi, ambao hawafikiri kwamba ubaguzi wa rangi ni tatizo au ambao hawataki tu kufanya kazi ya kufuta mifumo yetu ya ubaguzi wa rangi – hiki si kitabu chao. Ni kwa ajili ya watu ambao wamekuwa wakifikiria kuhusu kukomesha ubaguzi wa rangi, wanataka kufanya vizuri zaidi, na hawajui wapi pa kuanzia. <\/span><\/p>\n

Oluo anatumia lugha inayoweza kufikiwa na watu wengi, na haogopi kusema waziwazi, waziwazi, na kuwa mnyoofu\u2014jambo ambalo mimi huwa na wakati mgumu kulifanya. Kugombana ni tatizo kwa Marafiki wengi ninaowafahamu. Hatutaki kufanya mawimbi; hatutaki kufanya fujo. Marafiki hawapendi kujisikia vibaya. ”Utaharibu hili,” Oluo anasema, kwa hivyo ingia tu na kufanya fujo. Anawashauri wasomaji kukaa na usumbufu wao inapotokea, ”ili kuona ikiwa ina kitu kingine chochote cha kukupa.” Marafiki ni wazuri kwa kungoja kitu kitokee, kwa hivyo tunapaswa kuwa vizuri na hilo, sawa? <\/span><\/p>\n

Kitabu hiki kinawauliza wasomaji wasisubiri kitu kutokea. Oluo anataka ufanye jambo na ulifanye sasa\u2014jambo lingine gumu kwa Marafiki ambao wamezoea \u201ckukolea\u201d na \u201ckungoja mwongozo.\u201d Watu wa rangi wamekuwa wakingojea kwa karne nyingi na wanahitaji msaada sasa. Maisha yetu hutegemea hatua kutoka kwa Wazungu, na kitabu hiki kinaonyesha jinsi kitendo hicho kinavyoonekana. Anavunja mchakato wa kufungua akili yako, kufikiria juu ya dhana hizi, na kisha kufanya mpango wa utekelezaji. <\/span><\/p>\n

Katika kila sura Oluo kwa kawaida huanza na anecdote ambayo husaidia kuonyesha mada fulani kabla ya kuanza kuchunguza swali mahususi. Maswali haya pia yanatumika kama vichwa vya sura; mifano ni pamoja na ”Nini nikizungumza juu ya rangi vibaya?” ”Microaggressions ni nini?” ”Je, ukatili wa polisi ni kweli kuhusu rangi?” na ”Maingiliano ni nini na kwa nini ninahitaji?” Anatoa majibu madhubuti, yakiungwa mkono na orodha, takwimu, na ushahidi wa kijadi wa ukosefu wa haki wa rangi. Mtindo wake wa makabiliano ni simu ya kuamsha yenye maana kubwa. Hutataka kubishana dhidi ya pointi zake kwa kuwa anagusa moyo wako na ukweli wa yote. <\/span><\/p>\n

Kuna vitabu vingine vizuri kuhusu kuanzisha na kufungua mazungumzo kuhusu mbio; vitabu viwili hivyo ni <\/span>Kuamka Mweupe, na Kujikuta Katika Hadithi ya Mbio<\/span><\/i> na Debby Irving (iliyopitiwa katika <\/span>FJ<\/span><\/i> Apr. 2015) au <\/span>Kuzungumza Uhaini kwa Ufasaha: Tafakari za Kupinga Ubaguzi kutoka kwa Mwanaume Mweupe Mwenye Hasira <\/span><\/i>na Tim Wise<\/span>. <\/span><\/i>Vitabu hivi, vilivyoandikwa na White folks, ni vizuri sana na bado havigusi sana jambo hili: Watu weupe wanahitaji kujisikia vibaya; Wazungu wanatakiwa wawe wanazungumza na Wazungu wengine na wasiangalie watu wa rangi mbalimbali kujibu maswali magumu; Watu weupe wanatakiwa kubadilika, na kama hilo halikustarehesha basi Wazungu wanatakiwa wajifunze kukaa na usumbufu huo kwa sababu watu wa rangi mbalimbali wamekuwa sio tu wanahangaika, tunakufa.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sura mbili za mwisho ndizo muhimu zaidi. Sura ya 16 inazungumzia hitaji la watu wa rangi kuzungumzia ubaguzi wa rangi \u201c[b]kwa sababu kutouzungumzia ni kutuua.\u201d Vinginevyo, ikiwa Wazungu wanasema kitu kibaya wanapozungumza kuhusu rangi, matokeo pekee ni kuitwa mbaguzi wa rangi na labda kujisikia vibaya. Kitabu hiki kitasaidia wasomaji kushughulikia vyema usumbufu unaokuja pamoja na kukabiliana na ubaguzi wa rangi. Kwa sababu mabadiliko ni ya watu weupe kweli. Watu wanaonufaika zaidi na mifumo ya ubaguzi wa rangi pia ndio wana uwezo wa kuibadilisha. <\/span><\/p>\n

Oluo anaweka wazi hatua madhubuti za kufanya hivyo katika sura ya mwisho, \u201cKuzungumza ni vizuri, lakini ninaweza kufanya nini kingine?\u201d Watu binafsi wanaoweka mifumo hii hatari mahali si wanachama wa Klan au wabaguzi wa rangi kabisa, ni watu huria wenye nia njema wanaoendelea, kama marafiki wengi, ambao husimama kando na kufanya lolote. Ikiwa Marafiki wanataka kushikilia ushuhuda wa usawa, ikiwa tunaamini katika ule wa <\/span>
\n nzuri<\/span>
\n<\/i> kwa kila mtu, ikiwa tunaamini katika matumizi ya moja kwa moja, basi acha kitabu hiki kiwe mwongozo wako ili kuwa Marafiki bora.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5090,"featured_media":3082211,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","categories":[9920,10002],"fpb_issue_category":[10259],"class_list":["post-3125306","fpb_book","type-fpb_book","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-mapitio-ya-kitabu-cha-quaker","category-vitabu-vya-septemba-2019","fpb_issue_category-septemba-2019"],"yoast_head":"\nKwa hivyo Unataka Kuzungumza Kuhusu Mbio - Friends Journal<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.friendsjournal.org\/sw\/book\/kwa-hivyo-unataka-kuzungumza-kuhusu-mbio\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"sw_KE\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Kwa hivyo Unataka Kuzungumza Kuhusu Mbio\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Na Ijeoma Oluo. 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