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\"51O0nxi5j2L._SX331_BO1,204,203,200_\"<\/a>Na Ethan Nichtern. North Point Press, 2015. Kurasa 288. $ 25 \/ jalada gumu; $ 16 \/ karatasi; $11.99\/Kitabu pepe. <\/i><\/b><\/h3>\n

Nunua kwenye FJ Amazon Store<\/span><\/a><\/h4>\n

Ethan Nichtern anatoka kwenye mizizi ya Kibuddha iliyopandwa sana. Baba yake, David Nichtern, ni mwalimu wa Kibuddha anayejulikana sana; na mama yake, Janice Ragland*, ni mchoraji ambaye baadaye alikuja kuwa mtaalamu wa magonjwa ya akili. Kwa kuzingatia historia hii, mengi yanatarajiwa kutoka kwa kitabu chake kipya zaidi. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nichtern’s<\/span>
\n The Road Home<\/span>
\n<\/i> inarejelea, katika nathari ya kufikirika, kanuni nyingi za Kibuddha zinazotambulika sana, kama vile mazoezi ya ukarimu (dana), ambayo ni mazoea ya kuachilia, na inarejelea dhana kwamba kuchukia mateso kunaweza kutufanya tujihusishe na ”janja za kukwepa” kama vile kugeuka kutoka kwa mateso yetu wenyewe na mateso ya wengine. Kitabu hiki kinatoa maarifa ya kweli na kinang’aa zaidi juu ya mada ya kuwasiliana kwa uangalifu. Nichtern anachunguza kwa uangalifu vikwazo kadhaa vya mawasiliano mazuri. Moja ni kutaka kusimulia hadithi yako mwenyewe. Anabainisha hilo kwa uwazi katika kusimulia hadithi yako mwenyewe <\/span>
\n kabla ya wakati<\/span>
\n<\/i> , tunanyakua fursa ya mtu mwingine kushiriki uzoefu wake, na hivyo kupunguza uaminifu na muunganisho.<\/span><\/p>\n

Wasomaji watathamini vikumbusho vya Nichtern kuhusu kusikiliza kwa uangalifu na tahadhari yake kuhusu kutoa ushauri usioombwa, hata wakati mtoaji anaamini kwamba ushauri huo ni muhimu na wa uaminifu na hutoa kwa ukarimu na fadhili. Hii ni kweli hasa wakati shauri linapotolewa mapema sana, na hivyo kukata hisia ya mzungumzaji kusikilizwa kikamili. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tunajua vizuri sana athari za kufanya kazi nyingi kwenye uwezo wetu wa kukaa umakini na umakini, na Nichtern, tena, anaashiria kuvuruga kama aina mpya ya kawaida, ambapo umakini wetu huvunjwa karibu kila wakati, na kuathiri uwezo wetu wa uhusiano.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mojawapo ya hadithi zenye kuhuzunisha sana katika kitabu hiki ni akaunti ya kibinafsi ya Nichtern ya kukaa kwenye ndege na kuhisi mpweke kabisa na hatari, akigundua baada ya kutengana hivi karibuni kwamba hakuna mtu wa kutuma ujumbe. Kwa wakati huu, kama mwanafunzi yeyote mzuri wa Ubuddha angefanya, anaanza kufanya mazoezi na hisia hizi. Anapumua. Anajiruhusu kuhisi kufagia sana kwa huzuni; inapita. <\/span><\/p>\n

Wakati<\/span>
\n Barabara ya Nyumbani<\/span>
\n<\/i> ni utangulizi muhimu na thabiti kwa kanuni nyingi za Kibuddha, nina wasiwasi wa kweli kuhusu vipengele kadhaa vya kitabu. Katika sehemu ya \u201cAina Nne za Huruma ya Kipumbavu,\u201d maoni ya Nichtern kuhusu ukosefu wa kujitunza kwa Martin Luther King Jr. yanaweza kutumia tafakari kubwa zaidi. Zaidi ya hayo, katika uchunguzi wa Nichtern kuhusu ujinsia unaowajibika, anasema, ”Msimamo wa usiku mmoja sio tatizo kwa sababu hutokea nje ya ndoa.” Badala yake, anasema ni tatizo kwa sababu, kutoka kwa mtazamo wa karma (sababu na athari), inahimiza kufahamu. Kwangu mimi angalau, ingawa kushikilia na kutamani ni maswala makuu, wasiwasi mkubwa zaidi wa ”kujamiiana bila uwajibikaji” sio kushikilia lakini kuficha upweke au hisia zingine mbaya kupitia ngono.<\/span><\/p>\n

Kama mwanafunzi wa muda mrefu wa Thich Nhat Hanh, nimesikiliza mazungumzo mengi ya Dharma kuhusu mada ya hamu na kushika. Katika kitabu chake <\/span>Uaminifu<\/span><\/i>, Nhat Hanh anaweka wazi kile ambacho wengi wetu tayari tunafahamu, labda kutokana na masomo magumu tuliyojifunza: urafiki wa kingono hauwezi kutenganishwa na urafiki wa kihisia-moyo au wa kiroho. Na ngono haiwezi kuondoa hisia za upweke. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hata hivyo, Nichtern ameandika kitabu cha kuvutia ambacho wasomaji wengi watapata utangulizi muhimu wa mazoea ya Kibudha.<\/span><\/p>\n

*IMESASISHA Machi 11, 2016: Toleo la awali la ukaguzi huu lilimtambulisha mamake Ethan Nichtern kimakosa.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3077172,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","categories":[9920,9958],"fpb_issue_category":[10216],"class_list":["post-3127877","fpb_book","type-fpb_book","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-mapitio-ya-kitabu-cha-quaker","category-vitabu-vya-machi-2016","fpb_issue_category-ulemavu-na-ushirikishwaji"],"yoast_head":"\nNyumbani kwa Barabara: Uchunguzi wa Kisasa wa Njia ya Wabuddha - Friends Journal<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.friendsjournal.org\/sw\/book\/nyumbani-kwa-barabara-uchunguzi-wa-kisasa-wa-njia-ya-wabuddha\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"sw_KE\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Nyumbani kwa Barabara: Uchunguzi wa Kisasa wa Njia ya Wabuddha - Friends Journal\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Na Ethan Nichtern. 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