{"id":3115989,"date":"2002-08-01T00:00:40","date_gmt":"2002-08-01T04:00:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.friendsjournal.org\/hadithi-kuhusu-neema\/"},"modified":"2002-08-01T00:00:40","modified_gmt":"2002-08-01T04:00:40","slug":"hadithi-kuhusu-neema","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.friendsjournal.org\/sw\/hadithi-kuhusu-neema\/","title":{"rendered":"Hadithi kuhusu Neema"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nimekuwa nikisoma na kusikia mengi kuhusu neema<\/em> ya Mungu. Nini maana ya neema? Nilidhani labda unaweza kujibu swali hili.
\n Upendo,
\nAmanda<\/em>
\n ——-<\/p>\n

Habari Amanda,
\n Kimsingi, neema inamaanisha zawadi kutoka kwa Mungu<\/em> . Mifano ni bora kuliko ufafanuzi, kwa hivyo labda itasaidia ikiwa nitakuambia hadithi kuhusu neema ya Mungu. Ni hadithi inayohusiana na ugonjwa wangu wa akili. <\/p>\n

Kwa miaka kadhaa, nilikuwa nimemkasirikia mtu ambaye alihusika sana katika maonyesho yangu. Moja ya vifaa vyangu vya kudhibiti ugonjwa imekuwa kuuliza sauti ninazosikia – kile ninachojua sasa ni vipengele vyangu – jinsi ”sisi” tunavyohisi. Mfano wangu ni kwamba nina ufa wa nywele kwenye psyche yangu, na mistari ya kawaida ya mawasiliano kati ya sehemu zangu imevunjwa. Kwa hivyo kuzungumza na sauti zangu na kujifunza jinsi ”sisi” kuhisi kumejenga upya baadhi ya miunganisho hiyo ambayo ilivunjwa. Ikiwa sehemu zangu zilizovunjika zina njia ya mawasiliano ambayo ni halali, kwa kusema, hurahisisha ”sisi” kuzuia kuoza ili kuzungumza juu ya hisia hizo. Unaweza kusema haya ni makongamano ya wakati wa kulala na mimi mwenyewe. <\/p>\n

Kwa miaka mingi nilikuwa nikijisikiliza nikiwa na hasira kuhusu jukumu ambalo mtu huyu alikuwa amecheza katika ugonjwa wangu. Kila usiku nilisikiliza, nikifikiria, ”Huu ni mchakato. Kuacha hasira kunanihitaji kwanza nipate hasira yangu kikamilifu. Nitajisikiza nikipiga kelele. Moja ya siku hizi nitakuwa tayari kuachilia.” Kila usiku nilijikumbusha njia zote tabia yangu mwenyewe ilikuwa imejilisha katika hali hiyo: Nilikuwa sehemu ya tatizo, na nilipaswa kuwa wa haki na mtu mwingine. Usiku baada ya usiku nilisikiliza, na sauti zangu zikaanza, ”Najua hii ni ya kuchosha, lakini kwa kweli alikuwa ni mtu mwenye nia mbaya.” Na ningekubali, na kisha nikumbushe sauti zangu tena<\/em> juu ya jukumu letu. Kila usiku nilimwomba Mungu anisaidie kufikia mahali ambapo ningeweza kuacha hasira. <\/p>\n

Takriban miaka miwili iliyopita, nilikuwa mgonjwa sana kwa kujisikiza nikipiga kelele hivi kwamba nilimwambia Mungu, ”Siwezi kuacha hasira hii peke yangu. Sitaki kuwa na hasira tena. Sihitaji hasira ya kujilinda. Ametoka maishani mwangu. Ninaweza kuona macho zaidi bila hasira, lakini nitachukua hatari hiyo. Nitaishughulikia tu ikiwa nitaiondoa, Tafadhali tu kuondoa<\/em> hisia. <\/p>\n

Siku chache baadaye, niligundua mada kuu-zote nne kuu za udanganyifu kwa wakati mmoja, pamoja na zingine chache mpya zilizotupwa kwa hatua nzuri. Siku iliyofuata au mbili nilifanya kazi ili kupata tena ukweli wangu. Na nilijiuliza kwanini sikukasirika kwa kujidanganya. Nilikuwa tu najipanga upya, bila kujilaumu kama kawaida. Nini kilikuwa kikiendelea? <\/p>\n

Ilikuwa siku mbili kabla ya kutambua hilo lilikuwa jibu la Mungu: Mungu alikuwa ameondoa hasira yangu juu yangu kwa kuwa mgonjwa wa akili. Nilikuwa nimeomba kwa ajili ya uhuru kutoka kwa hasira kwa mwingine, na nilipewa, bure, uhuru kutoka kwa hasira kwangu. Ikiwa hilo haliwashawishi watu kuwa kuna Mungu anayejibu maombi, sijui ingechukua nini: Niliomba jambo moja, na nikapata jambo lingine ambalo sikuwa nimefikiria kuliuliza, na lilikuwa ufunguo wa kusuluhisha suala hilo. Mara moja sikuwa na hasira kwangu, niliweza kutazama siku za nyuma kwa njia mpya na katika wiki chache niliwezeshwa kuacha hasira kwa mwingine. Na mimi mara chache huwa nashangaa sasa. Ninapofanya hivyo, sio jambo kubwa. Kumekuwa na hali kama hiyo ya amani na furaha na uhuru. Zawadi kama hiyo; zawadi hiyo adimu na ya ajabu na ya kushangaza kabisa. <\/p>\n

Hiyo ni hadithi kuhusu neema. Hiyo inasaidia kufafanua kidogo? <\/p>\n

Upendo,
\nMariellen<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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