{"id":3117482,"date":"2007-05-01T00:00:19","date_gmt":"2007-05-01T04:00:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.friendsjournal.org\/juu-ya-kusikiliza-3\/"},"modified":"2007-05-01T00:00:19","modified_gmt":"2007-05-01T04:00:19","slug":"juu-ya-kusikiliza-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.friendsjournal.org\/sw\/juu-ya-kusikiliza-3\/","title":{"rendered":"Juu ya Kusikiliza"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nikiomba unisikilize na unaanza kwa kutoa ushauri hujafanya nilichokuuliza.<\/p>\n

Nikikuomba unisikilize na unaanza kuniambia kwanini nisijisikie hivyo unakuwa unazikanyaga hisia zangu.<\/p>\n

Ninapokuuliza unisikilize na unahisi lazima ufanye kitu kutatua shida yangu, umeshindwa, cha ajabu kama inavyoonekana.<\/p>\n

Sikiliza! Ninachoomba ni kwamba usikilize, sio kuzungumza au kufanya-nisikie tu. <\/p>\n

Unaponifanyia kitu ambacho ninaweza na ninachohitaji kujifanyia mwenyewe, unachangia hofu yangu na kutostahili.<\/p>\n

Na ninaweza kufanya kwa ajili yangu mwenyewe. Mimi si wanyonge. Labda kukata tamaa na faltering, lakini si wanyonge. <\/p>\n

Lakini unapokubali kama ukweli rahisi kwamba ninahisi kile ninachohisi, haijalishi ni ujinga kiasi gani, basi ninaweza kuacha kujaribu kukushawishi na kupata biashara ya kuelewa ni nini kilicho nyuma ya hisia hii isiyo ya kawaida. Na hilo likiwa wazi, majibu ni dhahiri na sihitaji ushauri. <\/p>\n

Hisia zisizo na akili huwa na maana tunapoelewa kilicho nyuma yao.<\/p>\n

Labda hiyo ndiyo sababu maombi hufanya kazi, wakati mwingine, kwa baadhi ya watu\u2014kwa sababu Mungu ni bubu, na Yeye Hatoi ushauri au kujaribu kurekebisha mambo. Mungu anasikiliza tu na hukuruhusu ulifanyie kazi wewe mwenyewe. <\/p>\n

Kwa hivyo, tafadhali nisikilize na unisikie tu. Na kama unataka kuzungumza, ngoja kidogo kwa zamu yako, nami nitakusikiliza. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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