{"id":3118872,"date":"2012-07-31T03:43:47","date_gmt":"2012-07-31T07:43:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.friendsjournal.org\/kuchunguza-maana-ya-kuwa-kimya\/"},"modified":"2012-07-31T03:43:47","modified_gmt":"2012-07-31T07:43:47","slug":"kuchunguza-maana-ya-kuwa-kimya","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.friendsjournal.org\/sw\/kuchunguza-maana-ya-kuwa-kimya\/","title":{"rendered":"Kuchunguza Maana ya Kuwa Kimya"},"content":{"rendered":"

(Mkopo wa Klabu ya Kitabu cha Jarida la Marafiki)<\/em><\/p>\n

Unapenda utulivu?<\/p>\n

Ikiwa ndivyo, hauko peke yako. Huenda ulifikiri uko peke yako, lakini kitabu kipya cha Susan Kaini, Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t stop Talking,<\/g> kinahusu watu watulivu ambao hawatambuliki sana katika jamii yetu. Kaini anadai kwamba huko Amerika, tunadhani kuzungumza ni sawa na uongozi, kwamba faraja katika makundi makubwa ndiyo inahitaji watu kufanikiwa. <\/p>\n

Hiyo inaweza kuwa kweli, lakini si lazima iwe hivyo. Mwanzoni mwa kitabu chake, Kaini anazungumza juu ya bora tofauti ya Amerika nyuma katika karne ya ishirini, kile anachokiita ”Utamaduni wa Tabia”: <\/p>\n

Katika Utamaduni wa Tabia, mtu bora alikuwa mzito, mwenye nidhamu, na mwenye heshima. Kilichohesabiwa hakikuwa maoni ambayo mtu alitoa hadharani kama jinsi mtu alijiendesha faraghani. Neno utu halikuwepo katika Kiingereza hadi karne ya kumi na nane, na wazo la ”kuwa na utu mzuri” halikuenea hadi karne ya ishirini. (21)<\/em><\/p>\n

Hivi sasa, Kaini anaonyesha, tuko katika Utamaduni wa Utu. Wamarekani wanataka kuburudishwa, ili watu kama watu mashuhuri au wasemaji wa motisha wapate usikivu mwingi zaidi kuliko wangekuwa nao karne iliyopita. Utamaduni uliotawala umetuathiri sana hivi kwamba tunaanza kushawishi hata watoto wetu wachanga kuwa waangalifu zaidi (ikiwa hawajaanza), na tunahisi kutokubalika katika jamii ikiwa tunataka amani na utulivu kidogo wakati wa mchana, wakati fulani peke yetu ili kuongeza nguvu. <\/p>\n

Maswali ya Mazungumzo<\/strong><\/p>\n

Je! ungependa kuishi katika Utamaduni wa Tabia au Utamaduni wa Utu? <\/em><\/p>\n

Je, ni faida na hasara gani za mojawapo au zote mbili? <\/em><\/p>\n

Je, unahisije kuwa nje ya kawaida ya kitamaduni? <\/em><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Je, huna uhakika kama wewe ni mtangulizi au mtangazaji? Jibu Maswali ya Utulivu kwenye tovuti ya Susan Kaini.<\/a> <\/p>\n

Nunua kitabu.<\/a> (Au iazima kutoka kwa maktaba ya eneo lako bila malipo!)<\/p>\n

*Chapisho hili ni la uteuzi wa klabu ya vitabu wa Agosti\/Septemba, Utulivu: Nguvu ya Watangulizi Katika Ulimwengu Ambao Hauwezi Kuacha Kuzungumza,<\/em> na Susan Kaini. Jisikie huru kutoa maoni yako kama umesoma kitabu au la! (Ikiwa huwezi kujiunga nasi mwezi huu, vipi mwezi ujao? Tunasoma kitabu cha The Man Who Quit Money<\/em> cha Mark Sundeen<\/a> kabla ya toleo letu la Oktoba kuhusu pesa.) <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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