{"id":3123021,"date":"2024-09-01T02:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-09-01T06:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.friendsjournal.org\/kweli-kwa-neno-lako\/"},"modified":"2025-10-12T03:25:41","modified_gmt":"2025-10-12T07:25:41","slug":"kweli-kwa-neno-lako","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.friendsjournal.org\/sw\/kweli-kwa-neno-lako\/","title":{"rendered":"Kweli kwa Neno Lako"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Waaminifu Wasiokuwa na Mke Mmoja katika Nadhiri za Quaker<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n
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Mbele za Mungu na marafiki zetu hawa, nakuchukua kuwa mwenzi wangu, nikiahidi kwa usaidizi wa kimungu kuwa kwako mshirika mwenye upendo na mwaminifu maadamu sisi sote tutaishi.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n

Harusi yangu ilifanyika katika eneo zuri la nje siku ambayo hali ya hewa haikuweza kuwa nzuri zaidi. Ukumbi ulitosheleza mahitaji yetu yote, na familia zote mbili zilifurahishwa na mpangilio huo. Pia ilikuwa maili tano kutoka kwa nyumba ya mshirika wangu wa pili. Mke wangu wa sasa alijua alipofikia mikono yangu kubadilishana viapo kuwa nina mpenzi mwingine wa muda mrefu. Pia tulikubaliana kwamba matumizi yetu ya viapo vya jadi vya harusi ya Quaker yalikuwa ya uaminifu na ya kweli. Hatukuhisi kuwa usanidi wetu wa uhusiano ulikuwa ukikinzana na msingi wa viapo vya jadi vya Quaker, na bado tunahisi hivyo miaka mingi baadaye. Ilichukua mabadiliko madogo katika kuelewa kwa maadili yetu tuliyoishi ili kupatana na yale yaliyotiwa wino kwenye cheti chetu cha harusi. Ninatoa huu kama mwaliko wa kuchunguza mitazamo yako ya kile ambacho uaminifu unatutaka sisi, badala ya kile kinachodhaniwa kuwa mwaminifu. <\/p>\n\n

Viapo kwenye cheti chetu cha harusi kutoka mwishoni mwa miaka ya 2010 ni viapo sawa na ambavyo wanandoa wengine wengi huwa kwenye vyeti vyao vinavyorejea karibu siku za kwanza za Quakerism. Nadhiri hizo zinaambatana na zile zifuatazo Mkutano wa Kila Mwaka wa London uliowekwa kwa dakika moja katika 1675: <\/p>\n\n

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Marafiki, katika kicho cha Bwana, na mbele ya kusanyiko hili, namchukua rafiki yangu [jina] kuwa [mchumba] wangu, nikiahidi, kupitia usaidizi wa kimungu, kuwa kwao [mchumba] mwenye upendo na mwaminifu, mpaka itakapompendeza Bwana kwa kifo kututenganisha.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n

Katika miaka 350 tangu, kushamiri kwa viapo vya harusi vya Quaker kumebadilika kidogo, lakini hisia za msingi zinabaki kuwa sawa. Haijisikii kama kunyoosha kupendekeza kwamba taarifa hii ya Quaker inajumuisha nafasi ya polyamory na maadili yasiyo ya mke mmoja bila kupinda na kujipinda ili kuunda pretzel ya maadili. Uaminifu wa Quaker katika ndoa unajumuisha mahusiano ya wazi. Kusimama kamili. <\/p>\n\n

Wakati Mkutano wa Mwaka wa Marafiki huko London ulipoandika dakika yao ya kwanza ya ndoa, walijua vyema namna ya harusi ya kanisani. Ibada ya Sarum\u2014iliyotumiwa katika Kanisa Kuu la Salisbury na kote kusini mwa Uingereza\u2014tayari ilikuwa na mamia ya miaka. Ni viapo tu katika Ibada ya Sarum vilikuwa katika Kiingereza; huduma iliyosalia ingefanywa kwa Kilatini. Maneno ”wengine wote waache” yanatua karibu na mwisho wa sehemu ya kwanza ya nadhiri za Sarum Rite, kisha inaonekana tena katika Kitabu cha awali cha Anglikana cha 1549 cha Maombi ya Pamoja<\/em> . Marafiki walipoacha maneno hayo kutoka kwa viapo vyao, walizingatia utamaduni wa siku zao. Marafiki hawa wa mapema pia walijitolea kwa maneno ya Mathayo 5:37: ndio ni ndio, bila kuhitaji uhakikisho zaidi kwamba kitendo kingefuatwa. (Kwa hakika, mazoea yetu mengi ya kisasa ya Quaker yanatokana na mstari huo; ni muhimu kwa Marafiki.) <\/p>\n\n

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Kwa ufahamu huo, ninathibitisha kwamba dhamira ya neno mwaminifu<\/em> katika viapo vya harusi vya Quaker ni rahisi: tunaahidi kuwa waaminifu kuhusu sisi ni nani na jinsi tulivyo, na kuishi ukweli huo wa kibinafsi. Hata kutazama kwa upesi kamusi kunathibitisha maoni hayo: waaminifu<\/g> waliingia katika lugha ya Kiingereza katika karne ya kumi na nne, ikimaanisha \u201cimara katika shauku au utii\u201d au hata \u201cwa kweli, mnyoofu, mwenye kutegemeka.\u201d Huenda ikafaa pia kukumbuka kwamba hata viapo vya arusi vya mapema zaidi, visivyo vya Waquaker vilitumia usemi \u201cwengine wote waache\u201d kwa sababu neno mwaminifu<\/g> halikumaanisha \u201ctafadhali usimbusu mtu mwingine yeyote.\u201d Kuwa mwaminifu kunamaanisha mengi zaidi ya kuwa na mke mmoja tu. <\/p>\n\n

Kijamii inadokezwa kuwa ndoa ya mke mmoja ndiyo usanidi pekee wa uhusiano unaokubalika, lakini huo si ukweli wa jumla. Ndoa ya mke mmoja ndio mtindo maarufu wa uhusiano. Mahusiano mengi, ndani ya Jumuiya ya Kidini ya Marafiki na ndani ya ulimwengu mpana, yanakuwa bora zaidi yanapokuwa ni kitu kingine zaidi ya mtu mmoja-mmoja. Vile vile, Marafiki wengi wako katika kiwango bora katika mapenzi ya wazi, ya uaminifu na yenye furaha na zaidi ya mtu mmoja. Kwa kukubali hilo kuwa kweli, viapo vyangu vya harusi havikuwa uwongo au hata kuacha jambo linalofaa. Mke wangu wa sasa alijua siku hiyo ambaye alikuwa akiingia naye katika siku zijazo, na alikuwa akikubali kwa furaha maisha yetu, pia. <\/p>\n\n

Hii sio msamaha juu ya asili ya kudanganya, ambayo inaeleweka kuwa kushiriki katika uhusiano ambao mpenzi wako hajakubali. Hili sio jaribio la kufuta maumivu ya Marafiki ambao wamevumilia washirika wa kudanganya. Kutokuwa na ndoa ya kimaadili katika msingi wake ni kuhusu mawasiliano na ridhaa. Sheria, miongozo, na nadhiri zimeandikwa pamoja. Idhini ya wazi, ya uaminifu na ya furaha hutolewa na pande zote. Kutokuwa na ndoa ya kimaadili ni njia ya kuishi, sio bughudha ya haraka. (Na kuwa wazi kabisa, asilimia 50 ya muda wako katika uhusiano usio na mke mmoja hujitolea kwa mawasiliano ya msingi na kuchimba hisia zako. Sio tarehe zote za joto na jioni za kimapenzi pamoja.) <\/p>\n\n

Badala yake, nakala hii ni jaribio la kutaja rasmi dhana ambayo imekuwa ikiishi kimya kimya ndani ya Jumuiya ya Kidini ya Marafiki kwa miaka mingi. Hili si mara ya kwanza kutajwa kwa mahusiano yasiyo ya mke mmoja ndani ya Jarida la Friends<\/g> , wala si mara ya kwanza kutoa mwanga mzuri au usioegemea upande wowote kwenye mada. Kutajwa kwangu sana ni katika toleo la Aprili 1, 1973 wakati mfanyakazi wa Pendle Hill na mshauri wa ndoa Bob Blood anauliza kwa upole, ”Katika siku hizi za ‘ndoa ya wazi’ ni muhimu kuchunguza mitazamo ya wanandoa kuhusu uhusiano na watu nje ya ndoa. Je! ni kiasi gani cha pekee ambacho kila mmoja anatarajia kutoka kwa mwenzake?” <\/p>\n\n

Kuna Marafiki kote ambao wako kwa makusudi katika ndoa za kimaadili zisizo za mke mmoja. Kila moja ya mahusiano haya ni ya kipekee kama kitambaa cha theluji, kilichopo kwa sababu maalum. Kuna Marafiki wengi waziwazi kama vile Kody Gabriel Hersh ambao waliandika kuhusu ushuhuda wao wa ngono katika toleo la Mei 2016 la Friends Journal<\/em> . Kuna Marafiki wa karibu sana ambao wanajulikana kwa wapenzi wao tu. Kuna Marafiki katika nafasi yangu: watu ambao uhusiano wao sio siri kubwa lakini ambao hawahisi kuwa ni biashara ya waajiri watarajiwa katika majimbo ya utashi. Ikiwa umehudhuria Mkutano Mkuu wa Marafiki katika karne ya ishirini na moja, kuna uwezekano kwamba umekutana na mmoja wa Waquaker wengi walioolewa, wenye polyamorous. Tunashiriki kikamilifu katika mikutano yetu ya kila mwezi na ya mwaka. Tunahudumu kwenye mbao na kutoa karama zetu kama maombi ya Roho. <\/p>\n\n

Haijisikii kama kunyoosha kupendekeza kwamba taarifa hii ya viapo vya Quaker inajumuisha nafasi ya polyamory na maadili ya kutokuwa na mke mmoja bila kupinda na kujipinda ili kuunda hali ya maadili. Uaminifu wa Quaker katika ndoa unajumuisha mahusiano ya wazi. Kusimama kamili. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n

Nadhani, msomaji mpendwa, inajaribu kupotosha usumbufu wowote unaojitokeza kwa kuchunguza maisha ya mwandishi hapa. Je, mahusiano yangu ni kamili? Sivyo kabisa. Je, nimelala kwa machozi katika mwezi mmoja uliopita kwa sababu mawasiliano na watu walio karibu sana na moyo wangu ndiyo magumu zaidi? Ndiyo. Lakini vile vile, mimi huamka kila siku nikishukuru kupendwa na watu wawili wapenzi sana, na ninashukuru kwamba nina nafasi ya kuwapenda kwa uaminifu. Kwa sababu tu uhusiano unahitaji kazi haimaanishi kuwa ni dhana iliyoshindwa. Kiwango cha talaka ni hoja ya kulazimisha dhidi ya ndoa hata kidogo, ikiwa tunachimba mshipa huo. <\/p>\n\n

Labda inashawishi kupendekeza kwamba hii inahisi kama uhalali wa watu kutoka kwa uhusiano hadi uhusiano kama kipepeo kwenye bustani ya maua badala ya kufanya kazi ngumu ya ndoa, na kuhoji kama watu wanaokubali kukutana huko ni makosa kwa kushiriki katika uhusiano unaokidhi mahitaji yao na sio siri kwa pande zote zinazohusika. Watu wanaojihusisha na ushirikiano wa kujitolea wengi huishia kufanya kazi ngumu ya ndoa mara nyingi. <\/p>\n\n

Mahusiano yangu mwenyewe ni karibu miaka 10 na miaka 25, mtawalia. Kuna kazi nyingi, utunzaji, na upendo ambao huenda katika kudumisha uhusiano kwa miaka 25, haswa ikiwa uhusiano huo umekua na wewe. <\/p>\n\n

Ni tendo la lazima na la upendo kuhamisha uelewa wetu wa \u201cmwaminifu\u201d hadi \u201ckweli kwa neno lako\u201d badala ya \u201ckuwa na mke mmoja.\u201d Mabadiliko haya hufanya uaminifu kuwa seti ya vitendo zaidi na pana zaidi, ambayo inaonekana kuendana na mtazamo wa Quaker wa ndoa kama uzoefu wa jumla. Mwenzi mwaminifu ni yule anayetimiza ahadi zake, iwe ni mazoea kama vile kutupa takataka bila vikumbusho au kubwa kama vile kutaniana tu na mtu mpya baada ya kujadiliwa nyumbani. Kuchonga kwa utulivu nafasi kwa ndoa za kimaadili zisizo za mke mmoja hakumdhuru mtu, wala hailazimishi ndoa yoyote kuwa wazi. Badala yake, mabadiliko haya madogo ya kiakili yanakumbatia zaidi utofauti wa furaha unaopatikana ndani ya Jumuiya ya Kidini ya Marafiki. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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