Reflections from a Solitary Meeting for Worship
Reviewed by Claire J. Salkowski
February 1, 2023
By John Andrew Gallery. Pendle Hill Pamphlets (number 469), 2021. 30 pages. $7.50/paperback or eBook.
During the last few years, we have all been affected by the COVID pandemic in myriad ways. Life has been upended, and we have been forced to view our lives from different lenses. Due to the various strains of the virus, COVID’s impacts seem to be ongoing and never-ending, causing meetings to re-evaluate the way meeting for worship is conducted.
In the early years of the pandemic, most meetings were closed, and Quakers sought alternative ways to conduct worship sharing. Author John Andrew Gallery chose to create his own “solitary meeting for worship.” This Pendle Hill pamphlet is the result of his insightful and thought-provoking reflections on those meetings conducted during his self-isolation that began in March 2020 from the domain of his own home.
Gallery’s technique for writing his reflections was well-practiced in an earlier publication in which he wrote of his experiences in a prayer vigil for peace. His new, small volume does not disappoint. This pamphlet includes only nine of the twenty-two essays written during this time; the additional essays are available on his website (johnandrewgallery.com). Once you read this small collection, you’ll want to read the remaining essays, as the author’s style is at once down-to-earth and personally engaging yet philosophic and provocative: he leads you to consider issues pertaining to deep theological thought and spiritual seeking.
Gallery finds company and inspiration in the words and works of such renowned and diverse figures as Buddha, Jesus, Henry David Thoreau, Marcus Aurelius, Siddhartha, Abraham, and George Fox. In the silence of his solitary meetings, he is led to consider the weighty questions that arise in a spiritual search for deep understanding and guidance for ethical living. Gallery writes in such a personal way that he pulls the reader in and makes one feel that one is a dear friend in whom he has confided and who gladly accompanies him on his journey. He is open and honest, often poking fun at himself, using a delightfully humorous tone. As each essay unfolds, the journey becomes one’s own.
As Gallery shares his readings, messages, musings, and remembrances, he weaves a connecting thread through classic works, such as Hermann Hesse’s Siddhartha; Meditations by Marcus Aurelius; and the King James Version of the Bible, to name a few. He candidly explores such themes as mindfulness and acceptance; surrender and control; suffering and imperfection; the solitary search for enlightenment; and the support and inspiration of a spiritual community, all in conversational tones. Yet his deeply personal queries probe ancient and universal questions regarding time, trust, and the “certainty of faith” within the context of numerous world religions and many faiths. Gallery spreads a wide net and gathers in the many gems contained in the sea of spiritual thought that arises in his solitary meetings for worship. As a fellow Quaker and seeker, I was delighted to share the journey with him and to learn from his considerable wisdom and honest contributions.
Claire J. Salkowski is a member of Stony Run Meeting in Baltimore, Md., where she has been active, and also attends the Northern Neck Worship Group from her creek home in Heathsville, Va. As an educator, administrator, mediator, and restorative circle practitioner, she worked both nationally and internationally; she is currently semi-retired.
2 thoughts on “Reflections from a Solitary Meeting for Worship”
Hi I read John Gallery summery article and feel very identify with his words. I had been very close to Friends because years ago I usually spent many Spring vacations in Pendle Hill. Now, I am settled dawn in Tierra del Fuego. There are no Friends in the region and I would like to get in touch with you, John and/or Claire. I read English with no difficulty but I have no oportunity to speak. English is my second language. I am a psichology and retired Filosophy professor at the University. I still have some clients by Zoom or Google Meet. Are you familiar with any of these? I am 85 y. and greatgrandmother…..I. would love to have some conversations with you.
Thank you for your comment and for reading my essay. I would be happy to exchange some conversation with you but it would be easier to do that via email. You can contact me at firstname.lastname@example.org
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